Build your discipleship playbook
Most churches do not lack a heart for discipleship. They lack a written plan that anyone else can run. This is a template you can adapt in an afternoon: three movements, the question each one answers, and the handful of steps that make it real. Free, no account needed.
Why most discipleship plans stall
Almost every church we have worked with can name its discipleship goal. Far fewer can answer three questions without pausing:
- What happens to a person in the seven days after they first show up?
- Who is responsible for making sure that happens?
- How would you know next month whether it did?
A plan that lives in one leader's head is not a plan, it is a bottleneck. The point of a playbook is that someone else can run it: a volunteer, a new staff member, a campus that opens next year. Everything below is written so it can be handed over.
One honest warning. Do not write all three movements at once. Pick the one where people are falling through today, get it working, then move on. A church that assimilates new people beautifully and never raises a leader has a different problem than one with twelve strong leaders and no front door.
What this plan is built on
A playbook that is only tactics becomes a checklist nobody believes in. A playbook that is only convictions never touches a Tuesday. So this one is written in two layers, and you should be able to trace any step on any page back to a reason for doing it.
The aim: multiplication, not attendance
The measure of a discipleship system is not how many people attend something. It is how many people are being formed into disciples who go on to make disciples themselves. That sentence decides everything below it. A church optimizing for attendance builds a funnel. A church optimizing for multiplication builds leaders, and accepts that it will send some of them away.
Six convictions, and what each one costs you
Every step in this playbook comes from one of these. If you disagree with a conviction, change the step it produces rather than doing the step half-heartedly.
| The conviction | So, in practice |
|---|---|
| Disciples are made by people, not programs. A program can carry information. Only a person carries a life someone can imitate. | Every step in this plan ends with a named human being rather than a resource. Nothing automated here ever speaks to your people in a leader's place. |
| What nobody owns does not happen. Shared responsibility is the most reliable way to guarantee that nobody follows up. | One name on each stage. Not a team, not a committee, a person. If you cannot say the name, that is the gap, and no system will cover it. |
| You cannot shepherd what you cannot see. People rarely announce that they have stopped growing. They go quiet, and quiet is invisible unless someone is looking. | Three lists somebody reads every week: who is new, who is not in a group, who has gone quiet. This is attention, not surveillance, and the difference is whether a human acts on it. |
| People are wired specifically, so place them specifically. Most burnout in churches is not a character failure. It is a misplacement nobody checked. | Find out how somebody is made before deciding where they serve, and let the person who walks with them read it first. |
| Leaders are raised on purpose or not at all. Availability is not calling. Left alone, a church promotes whoever says yes. | Nominate by name, train in a cohort, let them shadow, sign off deliberately. Four steps, none of which happen accidentally. |
| Finishable beats perpetual. Open-ended commitments produce drift, and drift feels like failure to the person drifting. | Courses with an end, cohorts that graduate, a ninety-day horizon. Something a person can complete and be commended for. |
How to use both layers. Take the six convictions to your leadership and argue about them first. They are the part worth disagreeing over. Once you agree, the tactics below are negotiable in detail and not in intent: change the tool, keep the reason. A church that adopts our steps without owning the convictions will abandon them by spring.
The three movements
Every discipleship system is answering three questions in order. Name yours, and most of the confusion goes away.
How does a new person become one of us?
How does a member keep growing after the first ninety days?
How do we raise the people who will lead next?
1. Assimilation: how a new person becomes one of us
The stages most churches use are Visitor, Attendee, Next Steps, then Baptism and Membership. The work is not naming them. The work is deciding what happens between one and the next, and who does it.
- Decide the front door. One link or QR code per entry point: weekend service, kids check-in, an event. If a new person has to guess where to go, most will not.
- Give every member a way to bring someone. The most reliable front door in any church is a member who invites a friend. Make that one tap, not a conversation about a website.
- Assign the first thing automatically. A short course for a new believer, a shorter welcome for a transfer. Decide it once so nobody has to think about it at 9pm on a Sunday.
- Name the follow-up owner. One person or team, contacting new people within seven days. This is the step churches skip, and it is the step that decides whether the rest matters.
- Track baptism and membership. Not to keep score. So that the person who was baptized in March is not still being welcomed as a visitor in September.
What good looks like: every new person has a human contact inside a week and something to work through inside two.
2. Growth: how a member keeps growing
Stages: Training, Groups, Serving. This movement fails quietly. Nobody leaves, they just stop moving, and because nobody is watching for it, no one notices for a year.
- Give them something to finish. A foundations course with an end, not an open-ended invitation to grow.
- Find out how they are wired. Two short assessments, Biblical Identity and Spiritual Gifts, so their leader knows who they are before deciding where they serve.
- Get them into a group. Being known by eight people beats being taught by one. Make the list of people not in a group visible to somebody who will act on it.
- Build a daily rhythm. A reading plan, a place to write down what they see, verses worth carrying. Small and daily beats large and occasional.
- Put them to work. Serving is not the reward for maturity, it is part of how maturity happens.
- Have leaders actually look. A leader who checks on their people every few weeks catches the drift while it is still a conversation and not a departure.
What good looks like: most members are in a group, know how they are wired, and their leader has looked at how they are doing in the last three weeks.
3. Leadership: how you raise the next ones
Stages: Emerging Leader, Leadership Training, Leadership. Most churches promote by availability, which is how you end up with willing leaders who were never trained and burn out in a year.
- Nominate on purpose. Ask your current leaders to name people who could lead. Do not wait for volunteers.
- Train before you deploy. Facilitating a discussion, mentoring one person, leading a group. These are learnable and most people have never been taught them.
- Let them shadow. Attach them to a working group as an apprentice. Nobody should lead their first group alone.
- Sign off deliberately. Their leader says they are ready, and then the church gives them something to lead. A vague readiness that nobody declares becomes a person who waits forever.
- Safeguard first. A background check and abuse-prevention training on file before anyone leads. This is not optional, and it is easier to make it a rule than an exception.
- Keep developing the ones who lead. Character, competency, calling. The people leading your groups are the ones most likely to be neglected.
What good looks like: you can say out loud how many people are in training, how many are shadowing, and how many are ready, and new groups get launched by people who came up through it.
The smallest version that works
If you do nothing else on this page, do these five. A church can run a real discipleship plan with only this:
| The piece | What it means |
|---|---|
| One owner | A named person responsible for new people. Not a committee. |
| One front door | A single link every entry point uses. |
| One first step | The same thing assigned to everyone who is new. |
| One group per person | Somewhere they are known by name. |
| One way to see who is stuck | A list somebody actually reads each week. |
Everything else on this site is an elaboration of those five.
Where the software fits
You can run this playbook on paper, and some churches should start there. Where a platform helps is the fifth piece: seeing who is stuck without asking six leaders to remember.
MKDSCPLS is free for churches and carries the parts of this plan that are hard to do by hand: onboarding links per entry point, personal invite links for members, courses and reading plans assigned to a whole group at once, the two assessments and the reading they produce, groups that sync with Planning Center, a leader view showing what each person in their group has done and what to do next with them, and a weekly summary telling a leader who could use a word from them this week.
Nothing in it sends a message to your people that one of your leaders did not write.
Of the three lists named in the third conviction, it currently gives you one: who has gone quiet. The other two, who is new and who is not in a group, you will have to keep yourself for now. We would rather tell you that than let you find out in March.
Read wider than us
This playbook is deliberately operational. It is about who owns what, what happens on day seven, and how you would know. It is not a theology of discipleship, and you should not build one from a software company's website.
For the thinking underneath, Discipleship.org is where we would send you first. It is a collaborative network of disciple makers led by Bobby Harrington, with books, a conference, podcasts and a five-level framework for locating where someone actually is as a disciple maker. Their work is about forming the person who disciples. This playbook is about the system a church runs so that person is not doing it alone.
Read them for the why. Use this for the how.
Start here
Read the first ninety days page next. It turns everything above into dated weeks: what to set up in week one, what to launch in weeks two to four, and what to expect by month three.
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